Can you feel that summer heat? Summer is the time of the fire element or yang principle. This is the time of the year we have the most energy, are the most physical, experience the most daylight, and spend the most time outside. This hot energy lends itself to a spike in sexual energy. As the earth gets “hot” so do we!
This is why many of us feel drawn into having a summer love affair, or finding a “summer bae” to share our extra energy with. Frankly, if there’s a time of year to “get your freak on” summer is it. However, no need to feel sad if you don’t have a partner, or are feeling frazzled this summer. You can still connect to your sensual goddess!
You can shine that light of the summer on yourself to deep dive into your sexual energy. I’ve created the 10 Sensual Goddess Commandments to help you tap into your feminine magic and succulent bliss this summer.
1. Thou shalt know you are a goddess.
This time of the year we can experience intense emotions. According to Taoist philosophy, the summer is ruled by the organ of the heart. The heart can bring us passion and creativity, but also can bring us feelings of impatience, hatred and bitterness. We may confront issues of love and opening up our heart to be able to receive love.
Knowing that we are a goddess can help us process whatever emotions show up for us. Remember that you are divine, waxing and waning just like the moon. Ride the waves of your emotions knowing you are experiencing the full spectrum of the goddess. Know that you are a goddess and have the power to heal and manifest whatever you want in your life.
2. Thou shalt love yourself first.
Since we tend to be more external in summer, it is important to remember your self care. Be sure to balance spending more time out doors by also having elaborate self care rituals. Balance your yang with yin! Take luxurious baths, cook sensuous meals, drink healing herbs, and create! Paint, dance, draw, write and sing. Spend some time relaxing at the beach, or swimming in a river. This is a pathway to cultivating self-love. Love and nurture yourself first, only then will you have enough to share with others.
3. Thou shalt treat your body as a shrine.
You don’t have to travel to India to feel the holiness of a temple. Your body is the most beautiful embodiment of the divine in the world! Treat your body as a shrine. Present her with loving worship, gifts and offerings. Decorate her with crystals and jewels. Take her to the sauna and sweat out all the toxins. Feed her healthy organic food. Know that you are worthy of complete adoration, first it begins with you.
4. Remember sacred sex, keep it holy.
Sexual energy is divine energy. It is the energy of creation. Without sex, none of us would be here. Honor the energy of sexuality by making love with intention. Don’t deprive yourself of the pleasure of love making, regardless of whether or not you have a partner present. Make love to yourself and feel the creative aspect of the divine flowing through you. Choose partners who treat you as a shrine. Do not settle for mediocre love making, ask for what you want and give it to yourself first.
5. Honor the sacred feminine and masculine energies.
All of life is a sacred dance of feminine and masculine energies. Both yin and yang are needed in order for life to continue on earth. We as women embody the divine feminine. However, the current times we live in sees being feminine as weak. The feminine is too often dishonored.
When we do not get to replenish our feminine energy, we end up feeling depleted. Take time to honor both the feminine and masculine energies in your life. If you are being too active, take time to rest. If you’re feeling stagnant, get up and get moving. We need both to be balanced.
6. Thou shalt not ignore your intuition.
Speaking of feminine energy, intuition is one of the gifts of being connected to your inner goddess. Take time to meditate and go within. Listen to the voice of your inner goddess and see what messages, insights and visions she has to offer. Do not ignore your intuition, it is your connection to the spirit world. Trust yourself and take an internal journey.
7. Thou shalt speak your truth.
Once you tap in, speak your truth. Speak your visions, your insights. The power of our voice is so important. Our throat chakra has a connection to our womb. Connect to the voice of your womb, release through words, sounds, cries, and screams. Chant yourself into healing. Above all, don’t hold back the truth of what you need to express.
8. Thou shalt have an open loving heart.
Opening your heart can be a scary experience. So many of us have hardened our hearts because of trauma and abuse. It is important not let the heart stay closed. First, begin by opening your heart to yourself. Allow yourself to melt into your heart center. Very often tears will come as the walls tumble down. Allow the waters to wash away blockages to the heart and simply ask to open in love.
9. Thou will experience pleasure every day.
Make your pleasure serious business. The kind of business that just puts a sweet smile on your face, or makes you erupt in moans and groans. Let pleasure be the medicine you savor to help alleviate the rough edges of the world. Make time everyday to experience pleasure and slow the aging process. Joy is the fountain of youth.
10. Thou shalt twirl in orgasmic juiciness.
Orgasm often. Big orgasms that make tears stream down your face and dig your nails into someone’s back. Little orgasms that no one knows about but you, though so delicious. Rolling orgasms that come in waves over and over again healing your entire body. Twirling in orgasmic juiciness is a right every goddess has. With or without a partner, allow yourself to be penetrated by ecstasy.
These commandments I present to you dear goddess to guide you as we stand in the light and heat of the summer. Take time to honor you!
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